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Why I miss India


Robert Brault said “Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.”

There will always be a new place to explore, new friends to make, new dreams to dream and newer memories to cherish but you hold onto the old chronicles of life for it gave you those little things that made big memories for you! Alas, it took me 33 years to realize this! I migrated but I didn’t completely move on, for India still lingers in my mind and I remember her every now and then. I guess whoever said ‘You can take the man out of India but you cannot take India out of the man’ wasn’t really lying.

Reason #1
The Taste of India
Dollars I have, fancy hotels I go to, but what’s the use for all I want is my Mama’s food.

To me, USA is a hotel, and India my home. Of course, hotel treats you well, it provides you clean sheets, fresh water, exotic meals and puts you in the lap of luxury. But after a while, you start getting uncomfortable and you miss home, and oh boy! what you miss the most…ghar ka khana. Even though, most of my lunches and dinners consist of Indian food, and I venture out to desi restaurants too, yet I am hungry, very hungry! I know I will get completely satiated only when I reach home.

Reason #2
The Colors of India
Take me in your embrace O! India for what I have become is a painting in black and white.

When I was in India, I shunned colors and thought the pinks and blues on people and things, looked gaudy. Indeed with migration, my perception and thoughts have changed too. Texas is a lovely place, only wished it was bit more colorful. I miss my rainbow India, the smiling, vibrant, happy colors of India…the yellow cabs, shiny pink sarees, green & blue houses, even an Indian bride in full bloom with her red bindi, sindoor, mehendi and the gorgeous lehenga!

Reason #3
The Crowd of India
I longed for a quiet little corner, to think about things. Now that I have enough of it, the utter silence seems to scare me.

Lot of open spaces used to mean freedom, and silence therapeutic, but not anymore. I miss that noise of the day and the lights of the night and everything in between. Groups of families shopping together, the hullaballoo in the sabji mandi, the pack of people trying to cross a busy road…the queue, the disorientation, the chaos, the rush. If you were to be a part of this, how will you feel? Crazy? Think again. YOU FEEL ALIVE.

Reason #4
The Sounds of India
The sounds of India used to annoy me but now they make music to my ears.

The country is a beautiful orchestra, and I miss every beat of it. Be it the shaadi ki band baja, the non-stop tring tring of mobile phones, sabji wala bhaiya shouting ‘bhindi le lo, bhindi le lo‘, the honking of cars, salesmen at your door with ‘Madam, insurance lena hai’, mandir ki ghanti, and every other jingle. Although I sit here, far, far away, yet The Sound of India reverberates in my ears, and even teases the silence of the West!

Reason #5
The Sights of India
Then, I detested those spectacles and exhibitions. Now, I long to see the drama.

You wouldn’t feel bored in India, that’s a guarantee for the country entertains you to your heart’s content. There’s always a sight, a sound or a smell to keep you amused, engaged and make your India experience simply incredible. Where else can you witness high powered street fights or mysterious cows walking away to glory? If that’s not enough, you have crazy signboards in broken English, beggars who speak fluent English, trees turned into temples, unbelievable traffic jams and what not.

Today, all I have is memories of those fascinating Sights and Sounds of India, and honestly, I’ve truly begun to appreciate and value them more than I have ever before. Who knew that eventually what I would miss the most would be small and trivial things that didn’t appear big and important then. Life teaches, or, maybe migration makes you wise.

By |February 2nd, 2012|INDIA, NRI|10 Comments

10 Comments

  1. Neha March 27, 2013 at 11:53 pm - Reply

    Very nice article. Is any of you in the SF bay area by any chance?

    • VIWA March 28, 2013 at 10:18 am - Reply

      @ Neha – Thank you for visiting us and glad you liked the article! No, we’re not based in SF…

  2. Madhurya October 25, 2012 at 5:42 pm - Reply

    Right now i am in USA, every minute thinking about India and family there. I hate this place i feel like hell. But whenever i look at how other people think the way i do i feel really happy. Thank you!.

    • VIWA October 26, 2012 at 6:33 am - Reply

      @ Madhurya – Thank you for visiting my website. I can understand your situation and what you are going through. I think we all are in the same boat!

  3. Shweta April 28, 2012 at 1:57 pm - Reply

    I was in US for a couple of years but the memories of India didn’t erase…India was on my mind, body and soul! In all those years I remember I had never had a genuine smile on my face…was never happy! It was like my body was with me but my soul was back home in India. All I knew was I had to be back home! I am so glad right now I am in my dream place-India! I can never forget the high I went through when my plane touched India’s soil…it welcomed with me open arms…an embrace I can never forget! So glad I was born in the right country…blooming it’s way to the glory! For this life, I truly want to sink in it’s beauty…don’t wake me, I’m already in a state of ecstasy! 🙂

    • VIWA May 6, 2012 at 5:54 pm - Reply

      @ Shweta – Hey there! Thank you for sharing your story. I do understand the ecstasy and the happiness that you talk about. I feel it too, when I visit India whenever I can…yours, of course, is much more profound since you have moved back. India can only give you that…a place where you feel ‘I belong’. No other place can.

  4. TheGoodWife February 4, 2012 at 12:52 pm - Reply

    somebody noticed India’s beauty and the charm….:) i think when you are in the country, you don’t realize and when you move away you value it more. i agree with you, our India is a lovely, colorful and exciting country.

  5. VIWA February 4, 2012 at 12:47 pm - Reply

    @ Anju – Oh yes, Oprah said it, and what she said was so right. India is truly a big entertainer, and you wouldn’t feel bored even for once when you are there. Coming here has made me see India through a new perspective, in a way, I never knew before. Migration makes you wise, isn’t it…

    @ Anita – I had to. India is a sweet heart, and truly the world’s most exciting country.

  6. Anju February 3, 2012 at 1:29 pm - Reply

    On a visit to India, Oprah Winfrey called the country “the greatest show on Earth”; It truly is!!
    Wonderful writeup…

  7. anita February 3, 2012 at 3:26 am - Reply

    Beautiful…
    Thanks for projecting beauties of India in different forms.

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